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Brotherhood Circles

Accountability laboratories where men practice becoming the men they claim they want to be.

Not through talking about it, but through monthly challenges, honest feedback, and witnessed transformation.

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What Are Brotherhood Circles?

What it's NOT

  • Therapy groups
  • Support groups
  • Networking events
  • Complaining sessions

What it IS

  • Accountability laboratories
  • Challenge through practice
  • Monthly commitments and action
  • Witnessed transformation

We create environments where vulnerability is a byproduct of challenge, not the starting point.

The Three-Part Rhythm

Every session contains all three elements in intentional sequence

The Challenge

30-40 minutes

Physical component, intellectual puzzle, or practical exercise. Men work together or in structured competition. Creates energy and focus.

The Reflection

40-50 minutes

Structured sharing connected to the monthly pillar theme. Each man gets uninterrupted time while others listen without fixing.

The Accountability

20-30 minutes

Transform insight into action. Men pair up, give specific feedback, and state one practice to test before next session.

Push. Support. Vulnerability.

The facilitator's job is to hold all three

"In this circle, we will push you when you're hiding, support you when you're risking, and make space for what's real."

Push

When you're stuck in analysis or repeating stories without action

Support

When you've taken a risk and need validation for progress

Depth

When you're finally getting real after weeks of surface-level

Sometimes you need a kick in the ass. Sometimes you need a hand on the shoulder. We trust you to tell us which.

The Ground Rules

Read at every founding session

1

Confidentiality is Sacred

What's shared here stays here. Period.

2

Presence Over Perfection

We don't expect you to have your shit together. We expect you to show up honestly.

3

Challenge is Care

If we push you, it's because we see more in you than you're showing.

4

Listening is Active Work

When another man is speaking, your job is to hear him, not prepare your response.

5

Emotion is Information

Anger, fear, sadness, shame — all are welcome here. They're telling you something.

6

Commit to Action

Every session, you'll commit to one practice. We'll hold you accountable.

Having your shit together is not the price of admission. Trying is. Honesty is. Showing up is.

Find Your Circle

Different entry points for different stages

Explorer Circles

Experience the CLAIM'N methodology without full commitment. Perfect entry point.

For men considering the full Development Program

Alumni Circles

Maintain transformation momentum post-program. Deepen integration of Five Pillars.

For Development Program graduates

Brotherhood Circles

Ongoing masculine development. Monthly accountability and growth.

For men wanting consistent community and challenge

What's Welcome Here

Men need explicit permission because they doubt they're allowed

Disagreeing with the facilitator or group consensus
Expressing anger directly (not at, but about)
Admitting you don't have the answers
Saying 'I need help' directly
Silence when you have nothing to say
Taking up significant space when you need it

"In this room, having your shit together is not the price of admission. Trying is the price. Honesty is the price. Showing up is the price."

Ready to Join a Circle?

Men won't come for community.

But they'll stay for brotherhood. That's the difference.

Cohorts run for 6-month commitments. No new members mid-cycle.